Redemption in marriage

Please pray for my family, and especially for my marriage. My children and I recently had to flee our home because my husband was abusing all of us. The situation is very complicated, but in short right now we have a protective order to keep us safe, and my husband and I are going to attempt mediation next week to determine if reconciliation is possible or if we will need to get divorced. I don't want to get divorced – I believe my husband is struggling with his mental health and that has caused a sharp shift in his attitude and behavior. But last I talked he was refusing to admit any wrongs for his part but instead still blaming us for how he was treating us. I know God can change him and save him and save this family. Please pray for redemption, even if it is in the long run. Please pray that God will grip my husband's heart and change him from the inside out and bring him home to us.